Giving gifts
The concepts of humility and face are also connected to
Chinese gift-giving etiquette. For instance, although it is
completely appropriate in the United States to open a gift
in front of the gift-giver, such an action is generally considered
impolite in China. What if, for example, a guest
opened a gift that was much less valuable than expected in
front of the host? This could cause embarrassment, discomfort,
and the possible loss of face for both the recipient and
the giver. It is better to accept the gift with two hands,
thank the person, and place it off to the side. In this way,
no feelings are hurt and no face is lost.
Knowing in advance what to give and what not to give is
also helpful. A clock, for example, tops the list of inappropriate
gifts because it symbolizes impending death. Other inappropriate
gifts include green hats, which have negative sexual
connotations; yellow robes, which are reserved for burial; and
white flowers, as white is the color of mourning in China.
On the other hand, company gear with logos, and local specialty
foods or products, are appropriate gifts.